For 14 summers we’ve been coming to Hickory Lake Campground near Aitkin, MN. We purchased a lot in 2007, a year after our son Scott purchased the campground with the intention of turning it into a Common Interest Community, or association of owners. That turnover was completed a couple of years ago, and Scott & Jen have moved on. Now it’s our turn, but more on that later. First I’ll reminisce for a bit.
At one point Mark & Tami had a site at the campground also, for a period of a couple of years, I believe. Jim & I loved that, of course…having both families here, and Kimi would drive up to visit also. Lots of fun laughs, conversations on decks, around campfires, celebrating birthdays. We never tire of times with our kids/grandkids!
I tend to get nostalgic when changes happen like this, so I walked around the campground this morning, thinking about all the things that have gone on here in the past 14 years. In the early years when Owen was just 4-5, we had to teach him to watch for our curtains to go up before he came over to knock on our door! He would be so excited to come to see Grandpa and Grandma–we’d hear this little knock-knock-knock, and we’d still be sound asleep! Owen, and later Noah, would stay for a week by himself for “Grandma Camp”. We’d have all kinds of special things planned for just the 3 or 4 of us. Campfires with marshmallows were the best! Scott & Jen sold off the last lots 3 years ago, so we no longer have them 1/2 block away. We have missed them a lot, and certainly have missed having the boys close by.
Jim and I were called into duty more than once. Scott would hire managers, they’d spend a couple of weeks and then decide it was too much work, and they would leave. Then, until he could hire replacements, Mom and Dad would step in keep things going. For a few years I was Scott’s onsite salesperson. People would stop in and want information about purchasing a lot, and I would show them around the campground, and explain how it all worked. And then there’s the story that has now become both a family and campground legend: Jim loves to clean things up, so one year he decided to clean up a lot of brush and small trees between our place and the lake. He took his chain saw and was having a great time…until Scott had to stop his fun and explain that the DNR doesn’t allow the removal of any brush/trees in that area. “Dad! You can’t do that?” We’ve had many laughs about that!
I had a favorite spot where I liked to sit. There’s a platform close to the lake with 2 Adirondack chairs. Not many people sit there, but I love to go there first thing in the morning and meditate. It’s one of the things I will miss the most about Hickory Lake Campground–having a spot where I feel some ‘ownership’.
Another thing that I will miss greatly are our neighbors on each side of us. If one could handpick neighbors, the Shafers and the Boldenows would be on the top of the list! We’re a generation older than they are, but have never felt excluded in any way. We’ve had countless Happy Hours on one deck or another where we’ve laughed and solved many of the world’s problems. It’s the kind of experience you just can’t replace!
So, why are we making this change in our lives now when we’re still loving it at the lake? Maybe because we have tried to stay ahead of the curve in each of our last moves. In 2004 when we left our 3400 square foot home on 1.3 acres where we had lived for 15 years on a beautiful lake near Fergus Falls, people were shocked. Why would we leave lake living and move to the ‘big city’? Because lake living had become work…hard work…for both of us. We were in our early 60’s, still had some years to work, and had all of our kids living in Mpls/St. Paul. Jim had a job offer at 2 hospitals there, so we downsized to a 2300 square foot home in Shoreview, packed up and moved. Seven years later we had both retired, and now in our late 60’s ,we found a townhome with 1600 sq/ft, and called the movers again! By then we had also purchased our lot at HLC, so we had 2 homes we enjoyed.
Now at 73 and 76 we find ourselves weighing the pros and cons of driving 2.5 hours each way to enjoy the lake, plus all the other things that need to be done just to live in 2 different places. We reached the time when the pros of simplifying outweighed the pros of having a lake place. And so, we put it up for sale…except…we emailed our neighbors first so that they weren’t taken by surprise. And 10 minutes later the Boldenows emailed back that they would like to buy it! Two weeks later, we have cleaned everything out that needs to go, and we are ready to leave.
We’ve been married 53 years, 44 of which we have owned a piece of lakeshore–a cabin for 15 years, a lake home for 15 years, and 14 years on the campground. How blessed we have been!
And next? Well, we have a home we love in St. Paul. I have gardens surrounding our patio, which is a very peaceful place to eat our meals or read our books. Mainly we look forward to having more time in which to enjoy things in our city and area.
Here are a few HLC photos to share: